I’m a dad on parole and the ex-hefer uses it against me. she threatens to file false charges if i see my son. anyone who knows our system knows full well that a parolee gets arrested first and has to fight his way back out. Is it bad to not want to deal with her or the child until he is much older?? I’m terrified of prison and visitation in my eyes isn’t worth it.
He hasn’t seen me in four years and he is only four and a half. she has always used him against me and i’m tired. yes i do pay child support.
the judge gave her complete control when she brought up my past. I am married and stable and VERY happy with my life, i just sometimes feel bad for the little boy.thanks for your time Jas.